Victimization of Self

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"I could have done better in the exams, if the neighbor had kept the music on a lower volume"

"These stupid people don't know when to stop partying. Can't they see I'm focusing for my interview?"

"I find happiness in other's happiness. I have given away myself for the others."

I am sure, we all come across such statements every day. We often know and revere the originators of such statements.

May I please have the liberty to hurt your feelings and call these revered people as cowards?

Yes these people are cowards who shy away from taking the responsibilities on their head and solving it. It is the easiest path for anyone to walk away from our responsibilities. After all, the world was created by the God for all of us to live happily or live with the consequences of our choices. God made all of us equal – giving the choice and the ability to think through. Then why do we blame someone else for our happiness? It is because we do not want to take up the responsibility on our shoulders and work towards it! Why do you think most of us complain about our boss or the workplace? Because, if you do not complain of them, the responsibility of your growth falls on you!

May a times we also find some people who not only complain of everything, make you the reason for their suffering too!. Be careful. Life is what we choose it to be. Never a bed of roses – we all know for sure. Every action or inaction in life has its consequence. I learnt somewhere that leaders are not who always take the right decisions, but those who make their decisions and live by the same.

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